With my upcoming book on swipe culture and the psychological transformation of modern dating launching in June, I wanted to spend some time examining one of the fastest-growing and least understood phenomena emerging from digital connection: cross-cultural online dating, a dynamic that has quietly transformed modern romance into something far more psychologically complicated than most…
When Did Life Become a Stage?
There was a time when things just happened and that was enough. You went out to dinner and nobody paused the table so it could be arranged first. You took a trip and you took photos, sure, but they were for you. Maybe for a shoebox, maybe to show a few people later. They weren’t…
Boomers, Gen X, Millennials, Gen Z: Who’s Really Addicted to Social Media?
When people talk about social media addiction, the spotlight usually lands on Gen Z. They grew up with TikTok, Snapchat, and Instagram at their fingertips, so it feels easy to assume they are the most hooked. But the truth is more complicated. Social media addiction by generation is not limited to teenagers scrolling late at…
The Loneliness Paradox: How We Can Be Surrounded and Still Feel Alone
You can be in a crowded room, your phone lighting up with notifications, and still feel completely alone. It is one of the strangest and most unsettling truths of our time. The more connected we are digitally, the more disconnected many of us feel in real life. We have mistaken access for intimacy and presence…
They’re Pretending. You’re Comparing.
By: Adam Faight No one opens their phone planning to tear themselves down. It starts with a quick glance at the clock or a mindless scroll to pass the time. Then, without warning, it hits. A vacation photo. A new car. Perfect lighting. Happy faces. Promotions. Engagements. Milestones stacked on milestones. And suddenly, what felt…




